All About Me

All About Me is a 12-week, one-to-one mentoring programme for children aged 5 to 11 that have experienced or witnessed domestic abuse. Through playing, talking and activities, All About Me aims to help young people explore their experiences, better understand their emotions and increase their confidence and self-esteem. All About Me sessions will be guided by the needs and wants of the young person, providing a safe place for their voice to be heard and listened to by a consistent and trusted professional.

Children can experience both short and long-term emotional and behavioural impacts as a result of living with domestic abuse, and each child will react differently. Key workers will support the young person to explore their experiences at their own pace while furthering understanding of the impacts of trauma in an age appropriate way. 

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“You gave my son a space to talk about how he feels and if he has anything to get off his chest and talk about with someone outside of the family to which he could open up a bit more”

Who is All About Me for? 

All About Me is for children aged 5-11, who live in Canterbury, Ashford and Folkestone & Hythe, and have experienced, witnessed or have trauma linked to domestic abuse.

Children’s experiences and trauma responses are unique, therefore we support young people based on the personalised support that they need.

When and where is All About Me run? 

All About Me is a 12-week programme of support, made up of weekly 1 hour sessions.

We adopt a flexible approach with our one-to-one sessions, and can offer support in a number of different venues including schools, children centres, community spaces or online. 

Where possible, we try to meet young people in accessible locations, often schools or community centres. We recognise that coming out of school and travelling to sessions can be a big disruption. By being flexible with our approach, we aim to minimise disruption to the caregiver’s days as much as possible. 

We have strong relationships with many schools across Canterbury, Ashford and Folkestone & Hythe, working closely with their safeguarding teams to create a safe and secure place for one-to-one sessions. 

What will children gain from All About Me? 

All About Me aims to help young people heal from their experiences and to develop and thrive. It does this through: 

  • Giving space and permission for young people to talk about any challenges and the impact of those experiences – breaking down the stigma and secrecy of domestic abuse.
  • Offering the context and language to their experiences of domestic abuse, through psychoeducational support around healthy relationships, trauma and emotional regulations. 
  • Building a trusted relationship with a professional adult and identifying a support network for young people to share their thoughts and feelings with. 
  • Showing that young people have a choice, and that their voice is worth being heard and listened to.

Frequently Asked Questions

All About Me is available for children aged 5-11 who live in Canterbury, Ashford and Folkestone & Hythe, and have experienced, witnessed or have trauma linked to domestic abuse.

Where possible, our trauma-informed workers aim to meet children where they are. This is most commonly in school, in a safe and comfortable location, but can also be in community spaces, children centres and if needed, can be online.

If a young person fits the following criteria, they can be referred into All About Me by a professional, parent or legal guardian.

  • Are aged 5-11
  • Have experienced, witnessed or living with the impact of domestic abuse 
  • Live in Canterbury, Ashford or Folkestone & Hythe
  • Have no more than 50/50 contact with the non-safe parent
  • Legal guardian/safe parent is invested in the support

Once referred into the All About Me programme, they will be placed onto a waiting list. Our Children & Young Person Manager will call a safe parent, or legal guardian to discuss the information shared in the referral, what is involved with the All About Me programme and check that the support is suitable for the family. If suitable, the young person will be allocated a key worker who will be in touch.

We cannot accept referrals where the young person lives with an identified perpetrator, has more than 50/50 contact or there is current domestic abuse in the household.

Rising Sun has a Safeguarding Policy in place for working with children and young people which each of our facilitators follows. Our highly-trained facilitators are experienced at recognising, recording and reporting safeguarding concerns through the appropriate channels. If a safeguarding concern should arise, a member of staff will inform the school safeguarding team, parent and a Rising Sun designated safeguarding lead immediately.