Counselling

Our specialist children and young people’s counsellors are here to support young people in coming to terms with and coping with the impact of domestic abuse. They are here to listen, discuss and help clients process their experiences in a trauma-informed space, through talking, activities or play.

Children can experience both short and long-term emotional and behavioural impacts as a result of living with domestic abuse, and each child will react differently. Through one-to-one counselling, the young person will guide the sessions and their counsellor will support them to process their experiences and any potential impacts of trauma in an age appropriate way.

Referrals for counselling are currently closed and will be reviewed in April 2025.

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"I liked how reassuring it was to speak up. I think I have dealt with a lot and the sessions have helped me"

Who is Counselling for? 

Counselling is for children and young people aged 5 to 18, who live in Canterbury, Ashford and Folkestone & Hythe, and have experienced, witnessed or have trauma linked to domestic abuse.

Children’s experiences and subsequent trauma presentations are unique; we offer support with this in mind, adjusting our approach dependant on the young person.

When and where is Counselling run? 

Our Counselling programme is made up of 12 weekly, one-to-one sessions, with a highly-qualified counsellor, lasting between 30-60 minutes depending on the young person’s age and needs.

We adopt a flexible approach with our one-to-one sessions, and can offer support in a number of different venues including schools, children centres, community spaces or online.

Where possible, we try to meet the young person where they are. We recognise that coming out of school and travelling to sessions can be a big disruption in someone’s day. By being flexible with our approach, we aim to minimise disruption as much as possible.

We have strong relationships with many schools across Canterbury, Ashford and Folkestone & Hythe, working closely with their safeguarding teams to create a safe and secure place for one-to-one sessions.

What will young people gain from Counselling? 

Counselling aims to help young people move past their experiences and enable them to develop and thrive following abuse. It does this through:

  • Giving space and permission to talk about any challenges and the impact of those experiences – breaking down the stigma and secrecy of domestic abuse
  • Offering the context and language to the experience of domestic abuse, through psychoeducational support around healthy relationships, trauma and emotional regulations
  • Reducing levels of anxiety and distress
  • Improving sleep patterns, which in hand can improve concentration at school
  • Increase levels of confidence and self-esteem to help young people thrive and develop positive aspirations
  • Building a trusted relationship with a professional adult and identifying a support network to share thoughts and feelings with
  • Showing that the young person has a choice, and that their voice is important and worth being listened to

How does it work?

Receiving support through Rising Sun’s Counselling Service is completely free for children and young people who have experienced, witnessed or been impacted by domestic abuse. If the young person lives in Canterbury, Ashford or Folkestone & Hythe and aged between 5-18, they can be referred into our service by a professional, parent or family member.

The referral will be processed by our team, and a full and detailed assessment will be undertaken by our Therapeutic Lead to gain a thorough understanding of their experiences and personal trauma. Once matched with a Children & Young People counsellor, the young person will be placed onto a waiting list to receive counselling.

When a space becomes available, the young person will be invited to start counselling. 12 weekly one-to-one sessions are initially provided, lasting between 30-60 minutes each, which as much as possible will be in-person. If after 12 sessions it is felt that more sessions would be beneficial, support can be extended.

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Frequently Asked Questions

Yes, all of Rising Sun’s services are provided to women and children free of charge.

Rising Sun is a registered charity, working to provide lifesaving support to women and children experiencing and surviving domestic abuse. We are incredibly grateful to our funders and supporters who enable us to provide our specialist services for free.

If you’re able to help us to continue being here for more women and children in the future, please consider donating today.

The waiting list for our Children & Young People Counselling is currently 6 months.

We are no longer accepting referrals for this service, but this will be reviewed in April 2025.

We adopt a flexible approach with our one-to-one sessions, and can offer support in a number of different venues including schools, children centres, community spaces or online.

Where possible, we try to meet the young person where they are. We recognise that coming out of school and travelling to sessions can be a big disruption in someone’s day. By being flexible with our approach, we aim to minimise disruption as much as possible.

We have strong relationships with many schools across Canterbury, Ashford and Folkestone & Hythe, working closely with their safeguarding teams to create a safe and secure place for one-to-one sessions.

Initially 12 weekly sessions will be offered, lasting roughly an hour each.

If after 12 sessions it is felt that further support would be beneficial, sessions can be extended for an agreed period of time.